The Aware Negro

Kevin Cody says:

Here my parents were each other's first everything, stayed married monogamously 50 years until their deaths, and instilled this in us. I guess that's why I am loner.

Karma & The Phoenix says:

Love your God with your heart, mind and soul and love your neighbor as yourself then polygamy can work. Black people need to stop hating and begrudging themselves and each other and maybe polygamy can work.

ThisIsRiseTV says:

White men have fucked our women up. Their anger and resentment comes from them adopting white views and becoming selfish instead of being the mothers to the earth like they were intended to be. All this disrespect towards black men and black somethin who want to strengthen the race. What's more important eradicating your learned jealousy? Or raising kids in better homes with more support and more structure. We are more comfortable with letting our sons suck dicks than we are with adding another parent to the household. Stop being backwards you aren't a fuckin robot or sheep

Theone martes says:

I have a question…
If a man could have multiple women does it mean that even the women can have multiple husbands/men

Tawana Christian says:

This male worship you call polygamy is only beneficial for the man who gets to do what he wanted all along and that is fuck a lot of women. He continues to add on to his whores because of course he never gets enough. Polygamy is another form of sexual addiction and homosexuality. A woman can't please him because he doesn't really want a woman… A man can be happy with one woman and it's been proven thousands of times. A man and woman with psychological complexes believes sharing a man is fulfilling. The woman doesn't feel worthy and enough to have a man of her own and the man needs an abundance of female conformation to prove that he's not gay. It's always someone feeling left out and lonely because a man is not God, he's just a man; he can't be there for everyone all the time so there's always going to be friction. Stop making excuses for men to be dogs and sex addicts, I thought you were a doctor in psychology… You know the woman is the only one who loses and the kids grow up in a weird situation and think it's appropriate to share a fuckin man. Is that cool for little girls to be groomed as some man's concubine? Or for little boys to think a woman is never enough, because his mother was ALL and EVERYTHING and he didn't need a plethora of mothers to feel loved, supported, and needed… Stop promoting male manipulation tactics, these simple women listen to you. REMEMBER LADIES THE MAN IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WINS IN POLYGAMY! Did you ever think that God made more women than men to ensure humanity continues and that every woman is not supposed to be married or have children? Isn't that why God made barren woman, sterile men, and gay people? Ask yourself and get a life serving God… How does sharing a man make black women look not thirsty, and desperate?

Creole Lady's Common Sense Approach says:

Most women are in pluralist relationships, and getting no benefit from it anyways. N yes. Contracts need to be in place for each wife and child involved. Bc this type of marriage is not legal. The wives and children involved need to be legally protected.

LOCDLIFE says:

What are the changes for the men, seriously asking

Las rising says:

in America half of these black me can't even support themselves even the ones with no kids..

Honey Bee says:

I am not for polygamy if every black man had more than one black woman alot of black men would not have a black woman were only ahead of them by 2 million not 42 million i for one will not be apart of polygamy i would rather stay a virgin and just be alone and keep to myself i don't want to be with a man that has more than one wife or mate but i do love my beautiful sisters though im fine being alone its not as bad as most people think its not going to turn my out gay or give me this i do t need a man mind set i just don't support polygamy

Joseph Eziri says:

Coming from a 19 year old African, I see nothing wrong with a man marrying two or more wives, as long has all wives agree on the union and he is financially stable enough to live comfortable with them. Every woman has the right to choice whether she wants the be apart of the polygamous relationship or not. Treat your wives like queens with freedom and empower them (like them owning their own business and henceforth). Equality must reign between the man and his wives. That results in a happy life. When a monogamous marriage faults, nobody blames the institution of monogamy itself, but the people in the marriage. Polygamy is not the problem, we need more responsible men and women that are willingly and that equates to a happy union.

Just saying that polygamy is wrong because a man is allowed and a woman isn't, doesn't make it a valid point. Just imagine women, having 10 different husbands, servicing them, cooking (or is that sexist?), eventually a pregnancy will come and nobody would know who the father is. Imagine getting a DNA test on ten different men every time the woman is pregnant. It brings much of confusion. Polygyny, however, can be much more organized and more natural. Just because a woman can't do what the man does, doesn't means its a way of oppressing or dehumanizing her. Lastly, a man with one wife or multiple wives are both justified, as long as there is 100 % HAPPINESS!!
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shan2kJ says:

Poor sister. She didn't get what he was saying about polygamy already being practice in the black community to some degree because she was associating it with U.S law v.s the mindset, which still makes her a prisoner to Eurocentrism from that perspective. The whole "bottom chick" term is a perfect example. Or the mistress who is dating the married man and may have a secret child.

T Jay says:

Polygamy in Islam is practiced wrong, when done correctly, it should be perfect for society. Men, in Islam right now take advantage of it. It's set up for women, as in every society, there will be a small group men who can attract a lot more women then the others. So, it allows women more freedom that way, rather than enforcing them all into monogamous relationships, which will be oppressive to them. This system allows for Islam to move forward slowly in the way women want in that culture, however, the evangelical Christian mindset is rife in Islam right now. We've become very western.

Ryan Drakes says:

Very true. The bible does support this.

Alfonso hernandez says:

This is so goddam stupid why should men have to get married fuck them end dump accountable bullshit